tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post7689225908373636035..comments2023-12-29T10:28:51.585+00:00Comments on On..................Everything: On......3 marriages? or 3 mirages?Atutupoyoyohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00568377395401525211noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-33708970661526353422007-12-04T12:22:00.000+00:002007-12-04T12:22:00.000+00:00If u r over 20 and have ever suffered through the ...If u r over 20 and have ever suffered through the breakup of a relationship u put in all you could, being so hopeful that 'this is it!', u'd agree with the Igbo saying that 'the song wey dem dey sing wen dem dey go farm, no be d same dem dey sing wen dem dey return'. <BR/><BR/>People can theorize they want, but the truth remains: human beings (and marriage) are too complex to be put in a box. The large percentage of men & women who have 'worked' themselves to death all the name of saving their marriage proves that.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-10870339652749438372007-11-05T05:55:00.000+00:002007-11-05T05:55:00.000+00:00this was and is a good one. people need to hear th...this was and is a good one. people need to hear this cos its becoming a pandemic......hw are you?Sele Akobo(curvyice)https://www.blogger.com/profile/14986067701347294316noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-58618840815910582472007-11-02T01:27:00.000+00:002007-11-02T01:27:00.000+00:00hello, it didnt seem apropriate to tag u on ur mos...hello, it didnt seem apropriate to tag u on ur most recent post so i'm doing it here. pls visit my blog for detailszerkhezihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05925278033700657838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-56438326968187126192007-11-01T16:32:00.000+00:002007-11-01T16:32:00.000+00:00Ingredient for a successful relationship/marriage:...Ingredient for a successful relationship/marriage: ME! yes, YOU!<BR/><BR/>Without that, all the love in the world is not enough *wink*UnNaked Soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03192342200790273568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-76476964144269071382007-11-01T16:29:00.000+00:002007-11-01T16:29:00.000+00:00In the euphoria of orgasm we take the vow... then ...In the euphoria of orgasm we take the vow... then when it all cums down, we say 'wow! wtf did I do?'<BR/><BR/>bottom line is, when NEPA take light for your marriage, trying to work it out from one side is as good as staring at the SUN on a very hot afternoon. You get fucked/frustrated each passing moment...<BR/><BR/>Life is too short... Play More<BR/><BR/>Where's my XBOX360 pad? oh, there you are :-DUnNaked Soulhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03192342200790273568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-85662797069023929692007-10-30T05:34:00.000+00:002007-10-30T05:34:00.000+00:00@ naapali: Shoo na only my comment you see? LOL. D...@ naapali: Shoo na only my comment you see? LOL. Don't tell me you're also guilty of that o...LOLcally-waffybabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16577180684670034328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-8892206602936952162007-10-29T19:01:00.000+00:002007-10-29T19:01:00.000+00:00Brilliant post Atutu!!Its amazing how most people ...Brilliant post Atutu!!<BR/>Its amazing how most people have given up on the possibility of having a healthy relationship/marriage. (I wonder how one can build one with such pessimism.)<BR/>I keep telling such people that there's no point jumping from pillar to post in search of... what?... The perfect relationship/partner?<BR/>It takes love, patience, commitment, dedication, compromise and lots of hardwork to make any relationship work.Aijayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14665725459484396982noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-48158617933315628522007-10-29T15:13:00.000+00:002007-10-29T15:13:00.000+00:00Am late as usual!Latecomer like me,lol!The number ...Am late as usual!Latecomer like me,lol!<BR/><BR/>The number of 'mirages' around us is alarming, REALLY.<BR/>Nothing good comes easy,Successful marriages require a lot of hard work.princesahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09206405119446956019noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-13283673838977202082007-10-29T15:01:00.000+00:002007-10-29T15:01:00.000+00:00sniff! sniff!! u should be given a nobel prize...d...sniff! sniff!! u should be given a nobel prize...dat was amazing........i hope both d married will remember this wen things dont seem as rosy/romantic as before...Onomehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06075411016505181183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-73329599778836491992007-10-29T13:08:00.000+00:002007-10-29T13:08:00.000+00:00this is so cute... i'm almost in tears. love is so...this is so cute... i'm almost in tears. love is so ephemeral these days, u wonder why. guys are weary of girls. girls are suspicious of men... we all think in monetary or sexual terms.<BR/>sad!Joy Isi Bewajihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12279638351942168377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-79194735821662618172007-10-29T13:03:00.000+00:002007-10-29T13:03:00.000+00:00Nice one, Atutu. Haven't taken the big step yet, a...Nice one, Atutu. Haven't taken the big step yet, and don't intend to anytime soon, but when I do, will definitely come back to this for what I'm sure will be some much-needed guidance - I bore easily. Hope all is well in Atutu Land? XxxBitchyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07986740483605336132noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-32518311587379898062007-10-29T00:35:00.000+00:002007-10-29T00:35:00.000+00:00I love thisThree different scenerios, marriages go...I love this<BR/><BR/>Three different scenerios, marriages gone wrong<BR/>and various stages<BR/><BR/><BR/>i like<BR/>truth spoken and the words so beautifulKafohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03562416491827334841noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-10872733182445817842007-10-28T21:20:00.000+00:002007-10-28T21:20:00.000+00:00CWB,haba softly now. If we no work dem go say we b...CWB,<BR/>haba softly now. If we no work dem go say we be freeloaders, no get responsibility, no fit support family etc etc. We work now na him be say we dey put family second and work first. Eh. Wetin man go do?Naapalihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11868505901688507321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-1971019222927065972007-10-28T16:53:00.000+00:002007-10-28T16:53:00.000+00:00i like the way u put the words together to paint t...i like the way u put the words together to paint the pictures..<BR/>these days it does seem like marriage is just a mirageAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-17054861345830144872007-10-28T16:47:00.000+00:002007-10-28T16:47:00.000+00:00Well written as usual. As for the divorce rates, b...Well written as usual. As for the divorce rates, blame the very busy husbands whose families come second as their jobs occupy first positions...cally-waffybabehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16577180684670034328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-21543359116141732592007-10-27T13:41:00.000+01:002007-10-27T13:41:00.000+01:00Brillant Post. Marriage is like a 'Rose Flower'(ga...Brillant Post. Marriage is like a 'Rose Flower'(gardener will tell you its a lot of HARDWORK to grow roses). My mantra in my 5 years of marriage is 'What you dont nurture can not grow'Liken that to the rose again and before you know it the flower is dry and the flower bed over flowing with weeds and other ndesirable elements. The thorns are all part of the bargain too.Nonesuchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03229852728142812061noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-74898692366300718152007-10-27T04:06:00.000+01:002007-10-27T04:06:00.000+01:00marriage or mirage? hmmnn..words for thought.marriage or mirage? hmmnn..words for thought.Afolabihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05811670308614659267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-61794945322285219972007-10-26T18:40:00.000+01:002007-10-26T18:40:00.000+01:00Marriage: a gift, a blessing and a serious respons...Marriage: a gift, a blessing and a serious responsibility....<BR/><BR/>Baby, u okay?Ms. Catwalqhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06506293561878301421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-19876543912139543152007-10-26T18:00:00.000+01:002007-10-26T18:00:00.000+01:00loved this.Too many people are too eager to get ma...loved this.<BR/>Too many people are too eager to get married but reluctant to put in the hard WORK it takes to maintain and grow a marriage... it's more than the wedding, it's a full time job with great benefits, but requires plenty of overtime with no extra pay.Kpakpandohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15218042454773248874noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-54727463933804040422007-10-26T17:03:00.000+01:002007-10-26T17:03:00.000+01:00thanks for the advice, will forever remember this ...thanks for the advice, will forever remember this post...Orientatednaijababehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09384193149279715987noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-62492690556177923892007-10-26T13:26:00.000+01:002007-10-26T13:26:00.000+01:00A standing ovation!!!A standing ovation!!!In my head and around mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07013160510388092321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-46942588659360245112007-10-26T12:35:00.000+01:002007-10-26T12:35:00.000+01:00nice one...more reason why i should run as fast as...nice one...more reason why i should run as fast as i can from it...everyone should...lol', but seriously, i've looked at my parents and most grown up relatives/family friends around me, they give meaning to the whole deal of making it work and sticking it out..theres a whole lot of grass to grace, better or worse situations with them..uh...conflicting i guess.Joy Akuthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11208651697541850438noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-59945506706182547572007-10-26T11:28:00.000+01:002007-10-26T11:28:00.000+01:00Very well written, alot of people say there is tha...Very well written, alot of people say there is that one special person for you out there. Don't really believe in it cos once 1 person marries the wrong person, the plan gets ruined for every1 else. <BR/>People don't spend enough time in long relationships (bcos its a relationship, the moment problems arise,or we get bored, we jump ship). Unfortunately, this mentality is being carried forward into marriage. For any type of relationship to work, the amount of commitment, patience and sacrifice needed is staggering. If we haven't learnt to cultivate any of thses habits in our youth, how are we supposed to successfully manage a marriage?zerkhezihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05925278033700657838noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-86620700176215078812007-10-25T14:06:00.000+01:002007-10-25T14:06:00.000+01:00beautifully written. and very true tootoo abd abou...beautifully written. and very true too<BR/><BR/>too abd about divorce rates, even here in Nigeria. too many broken homes these days<BR/><BR/>nice post. keep on wowing themozaveshehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00877556606729331721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2501333649334575578.post-21304429832015551252007-10-25T11:46:00.000+01:002007-10-25T11:46:00.000+01:00Well said Atutu. A marriage needs constant attenti...Well said Atutu. A marriage needs constant attention and a huge commitment to it's success. Take it for granted and you'll be wondering where it all went wrong...Ekoaketehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09150452841077432306noreply@blogger.com